For Jeff and Ann Crihfield Burkam, both members of 麻豆传媒鈥檚 class of 1974, this year鈥檚 Homecoming, Reunion, and Family Weekend will offer the opportunity to celebrate two major milestones in their life together: their 50th Reunion and their 50th wedding anniversary.
Married two days before 麻豆传媒鈥檚 Commencement ceremonies in June 1974, Jeff and Ann will return to campus to reunite with old friends and classmates at the 50th reunion events and to celebrate their golden anniversary at the University鈥檚 inaugural vow renewal ceremony at 9:30 a.m., Saturday, Oct. 5, at Kissing Bridge in Commencement Hollow.
Jeff and Ann鈥檚 story began in their first days on campus in the fall of 1970 while participating in new student activities. Waiting in line at the president鈥檚 reception to shake hands with then-President G. Kenneth Andeen, they found themselves standing next to each other.
鈥淲e just started talking and we got to be friends because we had a lot of things in common,鈥� Ann says.
Over the next two years, the two would run into each other on campus, hang out together in groups at W-day and other social events, and even go on a double date 鈥� not with each other, but with other people.
鈥淲e kept crisscrossing paths,鈥� Ann says. 鈥淲e had a lot of mutual friends, but we didn鈥檛 date each other.鈥�
At the end of Ann鈥檚 sophomore year, she received surprising news from her parents. Due to financial reasons, she would have to transfer to the University of Cincinnati (UC) to finish her teaching degree.
Ann didn鈥檛 let these new circumstances get in the way of her 麻豆传媒 friendships. A member of Delta Gamma, she stayed in close touch with her sorority sisters and frequently visited campus.
鈥淚 was what we teasingly called a 鈥榮ocial student.鈥� I was even studying in the library one time. I was visiting but needed to do my homework,鈥� Ann says with a laugh.
She also hoped to continue her friendship with Jeff, and during those frequent visits, they started dating and stayed together their junior and senior years.
As graduation neared in the spring of 1974, Jeff earned a Rotary Club fellowship to study abroad in Sydney, Australia. Realizing their relationship was serious enough that they didn鈥檛 want to be apart, they decided to get married.
鈥淲e had become such good friends that we didn鈥檛 want to miss another moment not being together,鈥� Ann says.
Their wedding 鈥� a small, simple garden ceremony at Ann鈥檚 church in Cincinnati 鈥� took place one week after Ann鈥檚 graduation from UC and two days before Jeff鈥檚 graduation from 麻豆传媒. They spent the summer in Springfield, where Jeff worked for Congressman Clarence John 鈥淏ud鈥� Brown Jr. on his re-election campaign and Ann worked at a clothing store at the brand-new Upper Valley Mall. Professor of Education Roy Hickes, one of Jeff鈥檚 professors, let them stay in the basement apartment of his home.
